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Where and when
The Mezzanine at The GSpot Adult Variety Store
Factory 7/234 Frankston-Dandenong Rd.,
Dandenong South
Sunday, 23 August, Time: 1pm – 3pm. Please arrive 15 minutes before the start time (12:45pm) to complete registration if you have purchased a ticket or to purchase one if you haven’t.
Cost: $25
Tickets
Tickets can only be purchased at fetlosophy.com
When purchasing a ticket, a shipping cost will be added automatically on the first screen. Please click ‘continue’ to view and choose a free option.
Please note that the number of spaces for this skillshare is limited. If you wish to ensure you have a seat, please purchase your ticket in advance.
This purchase will appear as KZFY on your bank report.
We all accept the need for safewords in play. We discuss them prior, but find ourselves on occasion bewildered by their use, misuse and non-use. We don’t actually know whether we can safeword before a safeword is needed. There are all sorts of thoughts floating in our brains: it will get better any moment now, I am enjoying some of it so I should endure the other bits, nobody will ever play with me if I safeword, when should I actually do it, do I like not having control or am I experiencing abuse.
It is practically the same as saying ‘no’ while sex is happening. Sometimes the word ‘no’ reverberates in your mind, but nothing comes out. Only when you get home you realise that you’d been taken advantage of and have to deal with it on your own.
On the other side of the coin dominants/tops trust that the bottom/sub is ok if they are silent and don't safeword, only realising later that it wasn’t ok at all. Sometimes guilt and shame are overwhelming, and we stop playing for a while or forever, especially if the bottom/sub takes to social media.
How do we learn to overcome this hurdle?
This skillshare is appropriate for:
Everyone
Your presenter
RednBlack (call me Red, everyone does), has been part of the Melbourne scene from 2007. Former co-owner of Splinter and Splinter skillshares and current owner of FETLOSOPHY.COM, books, skillshares, sensual candles and leather toys. In her professional career she has had more than 20 years of experience in creating and presenting seminars and group discussions, in Australia and overseas.
Where and when
The Mezzanine at The GSpot Adult Variety Store
Factory 7/234 Frankston-Dandenong Rd.,
Dandenong South
Sunday, 23 August, Time: 1pm – 3pm. Please arrive 15 minutes before the start time (12:45pm) to complete registration if you have purchased a ticket or to purchase one if you haven’t.
Cost: $25
Tickets
Tickets can only be purchased at fetlosophy.com
When purchasing a ticket, a shipping cost will be added automatically on the first screen. Please click ‘continue’ to view and choose a free option.
Please note that the number of spaces for this skillshare is limited. If you wish to ensure you have a seat, please purchase your ticket in advance.
This purchase will appear as KZFY on your bank report.
We all accept the need for safewords in play. We discuss them prior, but find ourselves on occasion bewildered by their use, misuse and non-use. We don’t actually know whether we can safeword before a safeword is needed. There are all sorts of thoughts floating in our brains: it will get better any moment now, I am enjoying some of it so I should endure the other bits, nobody will ever play with me if I safeword, when should I actually do it, do I like not having control or am I experiencing abuse.
It is practically the same as saying ‘no’ while sex is happening. Sometimes the word ‘no’ reverberates in your mind, but nothing comes out. Only when you get home you realise that you’d been taken advantage of and have to deal with it on your own.
On the other side of the coin dominants/tops trust that the bottom/sub is ok if they are silent and don't safeword, only realising later that it wasn’t ok at all. Sometimes guilt and shame are overwhelming, and we stop playing for a while or forever, especially if the bottom/sub takes to social media.
How do we learn to overcome this hurdle?
This skillshare is appropriate for:
Everyone
Your presenter
RednBlack (call me Red, everyone does), has been part of the Melbourne scene from 2007. Former co-owner of Splinter and Splinter skillshares and current owner of FETLOSOPHY.COM, books, skillshares, sensual candles and leather toys. In her professional career she has had more than 20 years of experience in creating and presenting seminars and group discussions, in Australia and overseas.