2.2.26
Hello everyone and thank you for following my blog.
Yesterday I presented the first skillshare of the year - strap-on play.
The mayhem started a few weeks prior to the date of the skillshare. On the events listing I saw an unusual number of interested parties, 81 to be exact. I took action immediately and explained that the space is limited to 20 attendees . To be honest I prefer it that way. I am not one to lecture to the class, but rather converse with people and answer questions as they arise. And they do arise, because we are not uniform machines and everyone’s experience is different. So I usually organise the sitting in a circle, with nice colourful cushion on each chair and talk.
Anyway back to the tickets, very few were sold a week prior to the date, many reserved their place by messaging me privately (read a long correspondence with each), some contacted the venue only to be redirected to me, etc. etc. Two hours before the start time I did a rough count and announced that the event was sold out. You would think that all went well from that moment on, wouldn’t you? Not exactly. People who reserved their tickets seeing that the event was sold out decided that their tickets were sold to others and didn’t come. Some others messaged me while I was on route to ask for tickets. and then some who already purchased their tickets didn’t come.
The ones who did attend had a great time. We sat in a circle discussing various way to kill or injure each other with huge dildos, how to mix the perfect lube, and things to that effect. There was a lot of laughter and even spontaneous applause at the end.
…and when I arrived home I opened my app to discover many messages from people asking when I am going to run this skillshare again…
Conclusion: Buy your tickets here in advice. Don’t hesitate and don’t delay. Come and have fun!
3.1.26
Hello everyone, and thank you for following my blog.
Among the many, many, things I do, which I shall share with you in the future blog posts, there are some stupid ones. One such thing happened on 11.10.25, which resulted in tears in my left shoulder subscapularis and supraspinatus. It was after fetish expo, around 1am, when I decided it would be a good idea to deliver over an hour of rough body play, specifically punching. I wasn't feeling any pain while doing it. On the contrary, every muscle in my body was singing with joy at the long forgotten pleasure of letting loose and raining unending punches.
In the morning my arm felt numb and after a couple of days I had trouble moving it at all. Every twist and turn had me gritting my teeth in pain. Amazingly cause and effect didn't connect for me for a while. Only when I was describing my latest play to a friend, it clicked. Hitting a surface as hard and dense as a wall for over an hour, somehow slipped my mind as the possible cause of my injury.
Concurrently scans were performed and revealed the torn muscles, and I had the joy of explaining the activity to multiple people of my care team, some of whom looked at me in horror, 'Why would you punch a wall, and why for so long?'
'It wasn't a wall, it was like a wall.'
'Why would you want to do that?'
'Because it was fun.' I can see confusion and disbelief in their eyes. 'It wasn't a wall, but a very dense pair of buttocks, placed in such a way that only the muscles were on the surface. ‘ Even in the midst of excitement, I made sure that it wouldn't harm the bottom.
The diagnosis didn't solve the problem of course,. Next will come hours and hours of rehabilitation, very painful massages and no upper body training for the foreseeable future. If that doesn’t make a difference, surgery will become a real possibility. So yes, that happened.