Power exchange dynamic set-up - 22 March

Power exchange dynamic set-up

Power exchange dynamics are fundamentally different from typical or normative relationships. Successful ones originate from deep introspection by both parties and detailed planning of the relationship by the dominant. Wanting to be in a dynamic like that is not enough. It requires programming and maintaining behaviour structures, day in and day out. It requires initiating and monitoring feedback loops and attending to any slipups. And ultimately it requires a lot of communication, of the honest and painful kind.

This skillshare will cover:

·         Analysing your personal desire to live in a power exchange dynamic

·         Pitfalls of compromise

·         How to come up with power exchange dynamic protocols that suit you

·         How to use time outside of a structured play scene

·         How to ask for what you want, without appearing demanding? (for submissives)

·         How to ask for what you want, without appearing weak, stupid, arrogant (you can insert your own self-deprecating adjective here) (for dominants)

·         How to ensure a calm environment without compromising your power exchange dynamic

·         Finding and using a mentor

This skillshare is appropriate for:

Couples or singles who are new to power exchange dynamics or planning to engage in one.

Your presenter

RednBlack (call me Red, everyone does), is a lifelong Dominant woman, deeply involved in the Melbourne Kink & BDSM scene, a former owner of the first 24/7 kink club, Splinter, and a lifelong educator of kink. She has been part of the Melbourne scene from 2007, presenting and running Splinter skillshares. Currently she owns FETLOSOPHY.COM book, skillshares, sensual candles and floggers. In her professional career she has more than 20 years of experience in creating and presenting seminars and group discussions, in Australia and overseas.

Where and when

The Mezzanine at The GSpot Adult Variety Store
Factory 7/234 Frankston-Dandenong Rd.,
Dandenong South

Sunday, 22 March, Time: 1pm – 3pm. Please arrive 15 minutes before the start time (12:45pm) to check in and find your seat.

Cost: $25

Tickets can only be purchased at fetlosophy.com

Please note that the number of spaces for this skillshare is limited. If you wish to ensure you have a seat, please purchase your ticket in advance. This purchase will appear as KZFY on your bank report.