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Emotional pain play

$25.00

Where and when

The Mezzanine at The GSpot Adult Variety Store

Factory 7/234 Frankston-Dandenong Rd.,
Dandenong South

Sunday, 22 February, Time: 1pm – 3pm.  Please arrive 15 minutes before the start time (12:45pm) to complete registration if you have purchased a ticket or to purchase one if you haven’t.

Cost: $25

Tickets can be purchased at fetlosophy.com or at The GSpot Adult Variety Store by cash or EFT on the day of the skillshare. Please note that this skillshare is limited to 20 attendees. If you haven’t purchased your ticket prior to the day of the skillshare, you may be turned away at the door. If you prefer to make a booking and pay at the door, please contact us. Clicking ‘going’ on the event listing does not constitute a booking.

Where and when

The Mezzanine at The GSpot Adult Variety Store

Factory 7/234 Frankston-Dandenong Rd.,
Dandenong South

Sunday, 22 February, Time: 1pm – 3pm.  Please arrive 15 minutes before the start time (12:45pm) to complete registration if you have purchased a ticket or to purchase one if you haven’t.

Cost: $25

Tickets can be purchased at fetlosophy.com or at The GSpot Adult Variety Store by cash or EFT on the day of the skillshare. Please note that this skillshare is limited to 20 attendees. If you haven’t purchased your ticket prior to the day of the skillshare, you may be turned away at the door. If you prefer to make a booking and pay at the door, please contact us. Clicking ‘going’ on the event listing does not constitute a booking.

Emotional pain play

Just like with physical pain, some people enjoy more intense versions of emotional pain play, while others enjoy less intense ones. It can be that for some people mild emotional pain doesn’t quite evoke the desired effect, or that they enjoy the more exquisite clenching of the gut. Whereas for others even the mildest activities will produce strong reactions. What does it for one, will not necessarily do it for another, top or bottom, dominant or submissive.

We will discuss the following issues;

How to identify and communicate our own needs of emotional pain play?

How to plan and execute a play session that would evoke a specific set of emotions, i.e. shame, guilt, humiliation or embarrassment, rather than unplanned and unpredicted ones?

How to predict the influence of our actions and words on our partner?

How do to negotiate and provide aftercare for such a scene?

How to make sure that a play scene like this doesn’t unintentionally hurt my own feelings?

How do to prevent the actions and words uttered and the resulting emotions from leaking into our relationship and ruining it in the process?

All this and much more in this skillshare.

 

This skillshare is appropriate for:

Couples or singles who are interested in emotional pain play on any level.

Your presenter

RednBlack (call me Red, everyone does), is a lifelong Dominant woman, deeply involved in the Melbourne Kink & BDSM scene, a former owner of the first 24/7 kink club, Splinter, and a lifelong educator of kink. She has been part of the Melbourne scene from 2007, presenting and running Splinter skillshares. Currently she owns FETLOSOPHY.COM book, skillshares, sensual candles and floggers. In her professional career she has more than 20 years of experience in creating and presenting seminars and group discussions, in Australia and overseas.