Lifestyle lessons are a series of presentations hosted by me to small group of kinksters, experienced and new. These lessons were coined as pertaining to soft skills in the lifestyle and one might think that soft means inessential in our communities. I see it differently. Soft for me represents the soft belly of what we are and the core of our practices. Everyone can deliver a beating, but many people struggle to create the dynamic that would make that beating meaningful. Soft skills, therefore, mark the difference between disappointment and fulfilment.

Lifestyle lessons will help get you to get started on your journey , challenge long-held beliefs, or open new avenues to explore.